3 years

 3 years of feelings, of joys and triumphs you have missed. 

3 years of laughs, of plans, and of trips. We would have wanted to share the experiences with you, and yet you marched out into the great beyond, setting a path for all of us to follow one day. Mom, you were a trailblazer in that regard. The hole you left in our lives is not smaller but somehow we have grown around it. We keep space for you but we are growing and changing everyday. 

Things I wish I could tell you:

- I turned 40. You were amazed when I was turning 37 and somehow 3 years went by and now I am 40. 

- Grayson and Sterling have grown and are little dudes now with all of the humour and ridiculousness that they seem to muster. You would be in stitches for the things they say. 

- Sophia has two more years and then she is off to post-secondary. How they hell did that happen so quickly. Your Diva misses you. 

- Dad is going on a trip with us and has helped us significantly. You would not approve of the help but you would be proud of the lengths and growth that we have shown... or at least I would like to think you would be. 

- I know the secret now, mom. I know everything. You couldn't bring yourself to tell us but secrets always come to the surface. Always. 

- I hope wherever you are that you see us for who we are, know that you are still loved and missed every day and that you are free of pain. 


Love you mom. 

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