the clock

It must be an antique
covered in an inch of dust.
an old worn out clock, perhaps.
Its ticking is laboured.
But consider this,
It made it through two wars.
No small feat for any ordinary clock.
It made it through a depression.
Extraordinary considering,
time would have been considered a luxury,
that is, in comparison to warmth.

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